Problem & Power of Pain Series

Week 4: Self-Inflicted Suffering

Brad Saab | Nov 8, 2026

Message

Big Idea

This is a HOPEFUL & FORWARD-THINKING message with two goals:
  1. SALVATION for your soul.
  2. STRENGTH that helps instead of suffering that hinders.

Summary

Some of the pain in your life is self-inflicted, and owning it is the first step toward healing instead of blaming God. When our own sin and folly bring ruin, our hearts rage against the Lord and we walk away from the One who can rescue us.
Blame-shifting can keep us stuck, while radical ownership sets us free. Own your choices for what was inside your control, and own your response to what was outside it. God built the world on cause and effect, and His discipline is meant to yield the peaceful fruit of righteousness.
In Christ, you are not defined by what you’ve done or what was done to you, and the Father runs to His children who turn back. Take ownership of your part, turn back to God, and choose the hard road of holiness and wisdom today.

Application

Take ownership of your part, turn back to God, and choose the hard road of holiness and wisdom today.

Memory Verse

Psalm 32:10 - Many are the sorrows of the wicked, but steadfast love surrounds the one who trusts in the LORD.

Scripture

  • Proverbs 19:3
  • Hebrews 12:1
  • Psalm 107:17
  • Genesis 50:20
  • Proverbs 1:24–33
  • Hebrews 12:6, 11
  • Psalm 32:10

Topics

  • Radical Ownership
  • Blame-Shifting
  • Cause and Effect
  • God's Discipline
  • Choose Your Hard
  • Marriage
  • Finances
  • Health

In This Series

Recap

Additional Resources

Daily Briefings

  • Day 1: Choose Your Hard
  • Day 2: The First Blame-Shift
  • Day 3: Jesus Take the Wheel
  • Day 4: Sorry, Not Sorry
  • Day 5: New Every Morning

Lifegroups

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